Pre-babies, the x-rated moments are vast and abundant, exciting and fun. Post-babies, the x-rated moments are non-existent. At least we can blame the first six weeks or so on the doctor's orders, but when the 'waiting' period is gone, between battling with dirty diapers, sleepless nights, sore breasts, and post-baby bodies, we're left wondering if the romance was taken out in one of the dirty diaper bags.
Not only that, when we manage to find time for those x-rated moments again, they become expected and routine. Where is all the excitement? Obviously it's harder to find and make alone time, and the alone time that is allotted to the day always falls into the same slots, nap time and bed time. So how do we keep the romance alive? How do we keep the x-rated moments fun and unpredictable? How do we maintain the intimacy?
I have yet to figure that out, so if you have any tips, feel free to let me know.